looking for men and women

I am looking for men who have similar concerns as myself about dating, relationships, and selecting a spouse. The purpose of this post is *not* to meet someone for an intimate relationship, rather for the purpose of discussing relationships via email. Eventually, I might like to form a small ( 6 - 20 people ) private mailing list for the discussion of these topics. Such a list would also act as a support group, and provide the opportunity for long-term friendships to develop.