But how do you find them?

To learn from men who are already great with women, make it a point to go out to the hot spots in your area and simply WATCH what’s going on.Look for the really attractive women who are with guys, and how the guys are BEHAVING.It’s also a good idea to watch the guys who are picking up -- or TRYING to pick up -- women and see what they’re doing.Pay attention to the body language of these guys, and see how women respond to them. Also watch the gestures, and if it’s not too loud, listen for the voice tone of these guys, and make a note if women are smiling and responding positively or if they’re looking for an escape route.