I wonder if women get foused like men?

They seem to be more fatalistic. They like to believe that it was either ment or not ment to be. Meanwhile guys try to set things up; create oportunities etc.

They just like to believe that they didn't try hard enough or did something wrong. Why do we have 1-900-big-boys? Well, guys like a direct solution to a known problem. It is just that all the guys who I know tend to be nice and educated and all; and it is not as if we ever really get any replies to our personal adverts on the net or in newspapers and it is not as if we get replies to our letters in response to someone elses advert.

We just keep on trying in various ways; but I'd never consider a phone chat line as good for much more than ego stroking noise. But it tends only to be that for the women since they are greatly out- numbered by the men.

Tell your someone

*Tell your someone that you'd like to go out with him. The worst that you can get is rejection.

*People online can be expert impersonators with hidden agendas. They may be anyone from pedophiles to drug dealers to undercover cops. I

*t's possible to have feelings for someone you've never seen, but keep your sense of humor about it and don't go too overboard unless and until you've met that person physically.